Parent Coaching Rooted in Collaboration and Compassion
Supportive Coaching for Parents Navigating Big Challenges with Even Bigger Hearts
Asheville Parent Coaching | Based on the Collaborative and Proactive Solutions Model
Parenting doesn’t come with a manual but it can come with a map. At Asheville Family Counseling, our Parent Coaching services are designed to guide you through the complex terrain of raising kids, especially when typical strategies just aren’t working.
Whether you’re struggling with meltdowns, school refusal, or what feels like constant conflict, our coaching sessions offer clarity, confidence, and connection. With our expert support, you’ll learn how to move from daily power struggles to a collaborative, peaceful relationship with your co-parent and your child.
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Feeling Stuck?
You’re Not Alone.
Does it feel like every request turns into a battle?
Are you walking on eggshells, unsure what might trigger the next outburst?
Have you tried rewards, consequences—even therapy—and still feel like nothing helps?
We hear you. At Asheville Family Counseling, we specialize in helping parents like you. Parents who are deeply committed to their children’s well-being, but are overwhelmed, exhausted, and out of tools.
Our Parent Coaching is different. It’s not about changing your child or your co-parent—it’s about transforming the relationship dynamic so everyone can feel seen, heard, understood, and valued.
Stacey Curnow, LCMHC
Founder of Asheville Family Counseling
Start Parent Coaching in Asheville
If you’re ready to begin parent coaching, our team at Asheville Family Counseling is here to help.
Call or text 828-761-3149 to schedule a free 15-minute Exploratory Call, or visit our Contact page to get started.
Our admin team will help connect you with a counselor who feels like the right fit.
Our 3-Step Coaching Approach
By following our three-step approach, you’ll gain the insight and tools to create lasting change and a stronger parent-child connection.
STEP 1
Compassionate Curiosity
We begin with understanding—not fixing. Together, we create a safe space for you to talk openly about your challenges. We get clear on what’s really going on beneath the concerning behaviors and identify the skills you need to prevent them.
STEP 2
Collaborative Problem Solving
We introduce the Collaborative & Proactive Solutions (CPS) model, developed by Dr. Ross Greene. You’ll learn how to partner with your co-parent and your child to solve problems before they lead to explosive behavior. You’ll shift from reacting in the moment to planning proactively—and from feeling stuck to feeling empowered.
STEP 3
Ongoing Support and Integration
We support you as you build new habits and shift the culture of your home. You’ll practice tools that foster trust and resilience, so you can respond to challenges with calm confidence—even on the hard days.
A Powerful Resource for Co-Parents
Parent Coaching is a game-changer for co-parents who are no longer living together and want to parent more effectively across two homes.
Whether you’re navigating a new divorce, have been separated for years, or are struggling with a high-conflict dynamic, this work offers a roadmap for reducing tension and increasing trust—between you and your co-parent, and between each of you and your child.
Even if you’re not on the same page (yet), we help both parents shift from blame to curiosity, and from reactivity to responsiveness. We focus on building consistency and collaboration—without requiring emotional closeness or agreement on everything.
You'll Learn How To:
- Establish shared parenting goals
- Communicate in ways that reduce conflict and emotional reactivity
- Make decisions that reflect your child’s unique needs and strengths
- Rebuild trust where it’s been fractured
We’ve seen tremendous breakthroughs, even in situations where communication had completely broken down. Our approach doesn’t ask you to be perfect—it asks you to be committed to doing what’s best for your child. And that’s something we can build on, together.
You’re Not in This Alone. We Offer Flexible Options to Support Your Family.
What Parents Gain From CPS Parent Coaching
Families often come to CPS Parent Coaching feeling exhausted, disconnected, and unsure whether change is possible without more conflict or control. Many parents worry that their child is “too resistant,” that family meetings never go well, or that trying something new will only make things worse.
What parents consistently discover is something different.
With support, families are often surprised by their children’s willingness to participate when expectations are adjusted to match capacity and pressure is reduced. Parents gain a deeper understanding of how well-intended strategies can unintentionally increase stress, and they learn how to shift out of Plan A in ways that protect trust rather than erode it.
Rather than being handed a script to follow perfectly, parents practice CPS tools in real time, ask questions as situations arise, and learn how to navigate moments of uncertainty with more confidence. The focus is on building shared language, clearer expectations, and realistic ways to move forward that feel fair and sustainable for everyone involved.
CPS Parent Coaching is not about quick fixes or forced alignment. It is about helping families experience safety, participation, and problem-solving in a way that actually lasts.
What Often Surprises Parents Most
Many parents tell me they did not expect:
Their child to engage at all, especially if there has been a lot of resistance in the past
Family conversations to feel calmer and less charged
To gain so much clarity about which expectations are worth holding and which ones need to be let go for now
To feel more confident using CPS tools without needing to “get it right”
These shifts create momentum, even when not every problem is solved yet.
How This Supports Long-Term Change
CPS Parent Coaching helps families:
Strengthen their relationship
Learn how to notice and respond to capacity before things escalate
Practice collaboration in ways that respect autonomy and energy limits
Build alignment around principles rather than perfection
Develop a shared understanding that fairness is capacity-based, not equal
Families leave with practical tools, shared language, and a clearer path forward, even when challenges remain.
Whether you’re facing school refusal, explosive outbursts, or just the exhaustion of parenting in today’s world, we’re here to help. You don’t need to wait for a crisis to get support. If you’re ready to stop fighting and start connecting, we’re here for you.
À La Carte Sessions
You don’t have to make a long-term commitment to see real change. Many families find that we can make meaningful progress in as few as 3 targeted sessions, especially when we’re focused on communication and collaborative problem-solving.
Coaching Packages
If you’re looking for more ongoing support, we offer a Coaching Package:
Pay for 4 sessions up front and receive the 5th session free. This is a great option for parents wanting to build momentum and consistency over time.
Free Webinars
Not sure if you’re ready to jump in just yet? We also offer free webinars that can help you get to know our approach and feel more resourced right away.
“They’re Not Giving You a Hard Time—They’re Having a Hard Time”
A compassionate approach to parenting kids with a PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) profile
Family Resources
Don’t miss “Shelter in a Storm: Create Courageous Love in All Your Relationships”, also available on our Family Resources Page.
The offerings in our Resources section are a great way to get familiar with the tools and mindset we use in parent coaching and family work.
Ready for the Next Step?
Whether you’re looking for individual parent coaching, support around co-parenting, or want to work through parenting-related dynamics with a current or former partner, these sessions are designed to help you improve communication and practice collaborative problem-solving. They are, however, not intended to treat a mental health diagnosis and therefore are not billable through insurance. These services are offered on a private-pay basis only.
All of our counselors offering these services have received advanced training in the Collaborative and Proactive Solutions (CPS) model—a compassionate, research-based approach that helps families resolve conflicts by understanding lagging skills and unmet needs, not by imposing control or consequences.
If you’re curious to learn more about CPS, you can scroll about halfway down our Family Resources Page for a detailed overview.
If this feels like the right kind of support for you, we’d be happy to get you scheduled with a clinician who specializes in this work and can walk you through what to expect during a free 15-minute Exploratory Call.
Schedule an Appointment
Call or text us at 828-761-3149 or click the links on our provider pages to book your initial consultation.
Meet with Your Counselor
Engage in a personalized session with one of our experienced therapists to discuss your needs and goals.
Here's Why People Choose Us
People choose Asheville Family Counseling because of our reputation for excellence. Our experienced therapists put the relationship with our clients first. Our caring and dedicated admin team will answer your questions and walk you through the process, making it more accessible and comfortable. We provide individualized care for each member of the family.
- Welcoming Environment
- Counseling Intensives
- Wide Range of Services
- Responsive Admin Support
- Flexible Scheduling
- In-Person or Online
Therapists Offering Parenting and Co-Parenting Coaching at Asheville Family Counseling
LCMHC, Founder, Asheville Family Counseling
LCMHC Associate
LCMHC
LMFT Associate
LCMHC
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a happier, healthier life today!
Contact Asheville Family Counseling today to schedule your free exploratory call. Our team of experienced therapists is here to provide the support and guidance you need.
Experience reduced stress, improved relationships, and a renewed sense of happiness and fulfillment by joining us at Asheville Family Counseling.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is Parent and Co-Parenting Coaching?
Parent and Co-Parenting Coaching is a service designed to help parents and co-parents navigate the challenges of raising children together or apart. It involves personalized sessions with an experienced coach who provides strategies and support tailored to your unique family dynamics.
Who can benefit from Parent and Co-Parenting Coaching?
Any parent or co-parent can benefit from coaching, whether you are raising children together or separately. It’s especially helpful for those facing communication issues, parenting disagreements, or challenges in creating a positive and nurturing environment for their child.
How long does Parent and Co-Parenting Coaching typically last?
The duration of coaching varies based on your specific needs and goals. Some families may see improvements in a few sessions, while others may benefit from ongoing support over several months.
What issues can Parent and Co-Parenting Coaching address?
Coaching can address a wide range of issues, including communication difficulties, conflict resolution, parenting strategies, and creating a cohesive co-parenting plan. It helps parents develop skills to manage stress, set boundaries, and provide a supportive environment for their children.
Is Parent and Co-Parenting Coaching confidential?
Yes, all coaching sessions are confidential. Your coach is committed to maintaining your privacy, providing a safe space for open and honest discussions about your parenting challenges and goals.
How much does Parent and Co-Parenting Coaching Cost?
Parenting sessions are not covered by insurance, as they fall outside the scope of reimbursable mental health services.
You have two options for payment:
À la Carte Session: $200
Coaching Package: Includes 5 coaching sessions for a total of $800, which is like getting one full session absolutely free.
Most families begin with a Coaching Package involving just the parents or co-parents. Once we’ve laid a strong foundation, we can decide together if and when it would be beneficial to include your child in the process.
Our practice founder Stacey Curnow, who is the only certified CPS provider in North Carolina, also offers parent coaching. Her package is four sessions for $1000 and additional individual sessions for $250.
If you have questions about which option is right for you, we’re happy to talk it through during a free, 15-minute Exploratory Call.
Related Counseling Services in Asheville
Our clinicians also provide counseling in these areas:
Neurodivergent Affirming Therapy | Trauma-Informed Counseling | LGBTQIA+ Counseling | Family Counseling