Welcome to The Repair Your Relationship Podcast!

Hosted by Stacey Curnow, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Relationship Specialist, this podcast is your space to explore how even the most painful patterns can become a doorway to deeper connection. Whether you’re working to repair your relationship with a partner, your teenager, a friend, or a parent, you’ll find wisdom, tools, and hope here.

Most episodes are just 5 to 10 minutes – small reflections to support you in healing attachment trauma and creating more connected, joyful relationships. While many episodes will speak directly to couples, this podcast is also for Individuals who want to heal attachment wounds and understand their own patterns and families who feel stuck in power struggles or chronic conflict, including those navigating PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) profiles

If you’ve ever wondered:

  • Why do I react so strongly in close relationships?
  • Why does my partner shut down when I need them most?
  • Why does my child explode when I ask them to do something?
  • Why do conventional behavior strategies seem to make things worse?


This podcast is for you.

Each episode is grounded in the same trauma-informed, attachment-based approach I use in my Couples Intensives, parent coaching, and family work. And as I continue writing my upcoming book on parenting kids with PDA profiles (coming Fall 2027), you’ll hear more reflections and teaching woven in there as well.

Listen here:  Apple Podcasts  |  Spotify  |  Amazon Music  |  iHeartRadio

Podcast Episode Library

Each episode is also embedded at the top of its corresponding blog post (just click the link), so you can listen, read the transcript, or do both.

Episode 28: When the No Makes Sense, But Still Hurts Too Much (Part 3)

Episode 27: The No Is Not the Enemy (Part 2)

Episode 26: The No Before the Yes (Part 1)

Episode 25: It Wasn’t Safe to Hope

Episode 24: The Moment Everything Changes

Episode 23: Two Gurneys Enter an ER

Episode 22: Can You Enjoy the View from the Summit?

Episode 21: How to Stop Overfunctioning and Build Trust Instead

Episode 20: When Anger Needs a Bigger Container

Episode 19: The Anger That Warms Instead of Burns

Episode 18: Overfunctioning and Underfunctioning in Relationships

Episode 17: Primary Anger vs. Secondary Anger: A Different Way to Understand Anger in Relationships

Episode 16: Why So Many Women Carry Too Much

Episode 15: When Working Hard Isn’t Working

Episode 14: We’re All Feral Cats: Learning to Trust in a World That’s Taught Us Not To

Episode 13: When There Are No Good Choices

Episode 12: When Aging Cracks Something Open in a Relationship

Episode 11: When Behavior Isn’t the Problem

Episode 10: How to Stop a Frog Boiler By Understanding Sociopathic Parts

Episode 9: “I Know You Care About Me, But I Don’t Feel Cared For”

Episode 8: When Your Partner Pushes Back on “The Past”

Episode 7: Why Heated Rivalry Broke the Internet and Why That Makes Perfect Sense

Episode 6: How Early Attachment Trauma Shows Up in Your Current-Day Conflicts

Episode 5: Why Feeling Safe in Your Body is the First Step to Repairing Relational Trauma

Episode 4: Your Loved One is Trapped in a Burning Building

Episode 3: Healing Attachment Trauma – When They Turn Away Right Before the Door Opens

Episode 2: Holding Joy and Sorrow at the Same Time

Episode 1: Ready to Heal the Familiar Suffering?