June was Pride Month, but the need for awareness, support, and genuine celebration doesn’t end in July. Now more than ever, our LGBTQ+ youth need us to show up.
At Asheville Family Counseling, we know that affirming care saves lives. Unfortunately, the statistics are sobering: suicide is the second leading cause of death among young people aged 10 to 24 – and LGBTQ+ youth are more than four times as likely to attempt suicide than their peers.
These heartbreaking numbers point to the urgent need for safe, affirming homes where LGBTQ+ youth are seen, heard, and celebrated.
What Can Parents Do?
1. Educate Yourself
Start by learning what your child may be up against. The Trevor Project offers excellent, research-backed resources for parents and caregivers. Many young people don’t feel safe coming out to their families – often because of casual comments, jokes, or dismissive language they’ve overheard at home.
Even well-meaning parents can unknowingly create unsafe environments. Taking responsibility for your words, learning inclusive language, and actively seeking out education are powerful first steps.
2. Normalize LGBTQ+ Identities from an Early Age
For those parenting younger children, the books on your shelves matter. Titles like And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell help lay the groundwork for empathy and inclusion.
3. Keep the Lines of Communication Open
Let your child know you’re a safe person to talk to. Validate their experiences. Ask open questions, and most importantly, listen. Let them know your love is unconditional.
4. Respect and Affirm Their Identity
Use their chosen name and pronouns. Celebrate their individuality. Make it clear their identity is valid and cherished – not just tolerated but welcomed with open arms.
5. Build Support Networks
Help them find safe, affirming spaces. Whether through school clubs, online communities, or local LGBTQ+ organizations, connection is key to resilience and self-worth.
6. Seek Professional Support When Needed
LGBTQ+-affirming therapists can help teens process complex emotions, develop healthy coping strategies, and feel less alone. No one has to navigate this journey by themselves.
We’re proud to be official sponsors of the Blue Ridge Pride Festival on September 27.
As part of our ongoing commitment to the LGBTQ+ community, we’re offering our booth space to LGBTQ+ artists and healers who might not otherwise be able to afford one.
And please share widely with anyone who might benefit.
Because Pride isn’t just a month – it’s a movement, and it needs all of us.
And if your child – or you as a parent – are struggling, you don’t have to face it alone. We have dedicated, LGBTQ+-affirming counselors who are here to help.
Reach out anytime. Support starts with a single conversation.
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We’ll discuss how we may be able to help.
